I thought about what to write this week. Usually the ideas flow freely and I have several of these things written out in advance. Today, it’s more difficult.

I don’t want to beat the proverbial dead horse, but I feel I must convey to all of you the importance of getting your financial house in order.

If you are on a budget and following it, then when life throws you the curve ball – you will be ready.

I explained the ‘oh crap’ factor a couple of weeks ago. People, we are still living it four weeks later. You have no idea when an emergency is going to rise up and bite a big fat nasty chunk into you.

Be prepared. At least be financially prepared.

I am writing this sitting in the hospital. We are waiting on the THIRD surgery/procedure for my daughter in four weeks.

I can do nothing but laugh at this point thinking about the cha-ching racking up as we speak.

The last thing I want to worry about is if or how I’m going to pay for this and we still have one more scheduled surgery to go.

My daughter needs my attention, my full attention. I can’t give her that if I’m stressing over the money part of this. She needs to have me strong and supporting her during this time with all these things happening to her.

By having my budget in place I know what I’m in for. Bring it! Am I writing them a check for the whole enchilada at one time? Um, no. But I know I have the ability to pay it and I can focus on the most important thing which is my kid.

‘AND’ having an emergency fund helps gives me that peace of mind!

Get on your budget and work it- live it- breathe it. You won’t be perfect all the time, I’m not! But by my telling my money what to do I have the control. I also know when crap happens its not the end of the world.

As I talked about before, know your your insurance plan. Know it inside and out. Once you demystify the mysterious it’s no longer a weight looming over you. You are in control.

A nice lady from the hospital business office called me the other day to make ‘arrangements’. Guess what, she had me owing twice what my insurance company said I did, which is more than my catastrophic cap. So I knew it was wrong.

She kept insisting this was the amount I owed. The conversation ended with the nice lady saying she would call my insurance company.

Don’t blindly take someone’s word for what you owe. ‘Know’ what you owe.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions or tell someone they are wrong.

If you are going to freak out, freak out over the things out of your control. Your budget is not one of those things..

It’s the end of January and I am behind.  Given the ‘oh crap factor’ that happened recently I should give myself a break, but I’m still stressing.

Usually by now I have everything for our tax returns ready to go only waiting on our w2′s to arrive.

Yes, it’s January not April 15th.  Yes, I’m behind. Most of you are saying I’m crazy. I’m not.

Just like your budget, it’s all about the planning.

How many of you are burning the midnight oil on April 14th? You’re stressed, cussing – swearing you won’t wait until the last minute next year yet there you are. Some of you may even file an extension. [Read more...]

Ok my lovelies, we are going to talk today about the ‘oh crap’ factor in life and are you really prepared.

The last two weeks have been ……’rough’. What started out with a trip to the pediatrician that turned much more serious very quickly. My daughter was diagnosed with a UTI, given a shot in the booty, a couple of prescriptions and we left.

Fast forward past the pharmacy to the house and she starts to mimic the Exorcist in my kitchen. Nice. There are some thing s I just don’t do and vomit is one of them. On cue the phone rings and it’s the doctor asking how things are going. How do you think its going?? She tells me to pack it up and I get to spend the evening in the hospital ER. [Read more...]

Alright, it’s January. I let the holiday season go by and I didn’t pound on you about lists or budgets for the holidays. I thought about it. I thought about it a lot. I was worried about all of you out there shopping the sales and just shopping period.

I realize that not all of my readers are cut from the same cloth. That’s what makes this great. So whether you celebrate Kwanza, Christmas, Chanukah, Boxing Day, Kiss-the-In-Laws-Day, guess what? It all comes at the same time of year. Same time – every year… [Read more...]

Right now there are sales everywhere. They are trying to entice you to buy more, spend more.

Don’t get me wrong, everyone loves the word ‘$@le’ especially me. My mantra is ‘don’t pay full price for anything if possible. The problem lies when we get mesmerized by the clearance signs, red tags and the four letters s-a-l-e. Especially the daily emails coming from stores right now. We buy things that we normally wouldn’t and that we don’t need.

Let’s face it, when items are on sale you presumably get more for your money and you are getting a great deal right? However, just because something is marked on sale, does that mean it is a good buy? [Read more...]